Stay in your lane!

Stay in your lane! It all started last year at Steubenville’s Women’s Glory Conference when that phrase came to me. I never imagined that it would follow me for over a year but apparently I needed reminding. When the Spirit prompted me to ponder that phrase, I took it to mean stay focused, worry about yourself and stop meddling in other people’s “business.” Looking back, I get the sense that was only part of the message because the Spirit got creative. LOL! Let me explain.

Several months ago during mass I heard a homily that struck me – literally slapped me in the face and I haven’t been able to get it out of my head since! Actually, I should say one word of the homily struck me because I don’t remember anything from the homily except this word – REMAIN! It was as if the whole world stood still after I heard that word and I can honestly say it has changed my life.

I don’t even know where to begin. Remain: remain still, remain at your job, remain with the projects you began, remain on the spiritual path set for you by God, remain hopeful, remain docile, remain obedient, remain still long enough to let God catch up, remain calm, remain faithful, remain open to the Holy Spirit – just to name a few. It goes without saying that this word touched every aspect of my life – my spiritual life, my personal life, my career. That one word literally changed everything. It changed how I currently approach life and it’s liberating.

All this to say – have you ever walked out of mass thinking to yourself: Nothing! I got nothing from that homily or I couldn’t understand that priest or something close to that? Maybe consider the fact that Jesus is the one speaking through that priest. I don’t know about you, but when I read some of the things Jesus said I find he’s difficult to understand too! But this word that came to me during the homily is proof that even one word gleaned from a homily can change your life. All you have to do is be open to receive it! God bless you!

Nativity Hut – Hal Frenck (1982?)

Nativity Hut – Hal Frenck

Today I chose a simpler more contemporary piece. While this one doesn’t have so many characters in the scene I felt it had a lot to “say” about the role we play in our family, community and world.

Conduit of faith

Joseph stands close by Mary’s side and he is looking to her. This scene reminded me of the statues of Joseph in a few of the crèches I saw in area parishes. As I pondered Joseph’s gaze, it occurred to me that Mary was a conduit of faith for Joseph.

Spotlight on Mary

Mary is the protagonist in this painting. All eyes, even Jesus’, are on her. The more I think about it, the more I get the sense that Mary is the conduit of faith, hope and love for everyone in the scene – her husband, her son, her neighbor.

Gatekeeper

I look at the shepherd in the doorway and he looks to me like a gatekeeper, like he’s keeping watch at the entrance of the hut. The hut and who’s within it are symbols of faith, hope and love.

God speaks

My interpretation of this painting is we all are called to be conduits of faith, hope and love in the world. At the same time, we’re called to be gatekeepers. We keep watch in our families, communities and world and we offer our prayers where we feel they’re needed most and we encourage others in faith by our example.

Don’t be discouraged

It’s easy to get discouraged or feel like we’ve failed in some way because our family and world are not Christ centered. But we should remember that God is in control and His ways are not our ways. Never underestimate the power of prayer! Keep praying – pray without ceasing!

Your best is good enough

When I was a teacher, I remember telling my students that doing their best is all they needed to concern themselves with. Some of them would get so discouraged when they got a 75 on their test. But sometimes, no matter how hard they tried, 75 was all they could muster. I’d try to make them understand that if they studied as they should have and did the best they could then they shouldn’t beat themselves up for achieving that 75.

Keeping the faith

The same holds true for us. We shouldn’t be discouraged at life’s unfolding in a way we didn’t expect. Instead, we should ask ourselves: are we focused on being the gatekeeper of the faith? How are we doing at being a conduit and example?

One can only hope

No matter our circumstance at any given moment, we must remain steadfast and dedicated to keeping faith, hope and love alive in our families, communities and world while acknowledging our limitations. Everything else is up to God!

What do you see in this painting? How does it speak to you? Share your thoughts. Merry Christmas! God bless you.